Funerals don't usually bring out the best in people. Surprising, right? But when you're the one "hosting" the funeral or it's for "your" person (meaning you'll be the one getting the most sympathy at this shindig), your frame of mind is going to be different than the average attendee. If you're like me, the thought of dealing with a lot of people on what's already a really shitty day can inspire frustration, anxiety, and yes, even anger. And, if you're really like me, you lik